1: What you have experienced....
Everyone knows that a first date is not only a free dinner (for the ladies) but also your first of many therapy sessions. We all know that sharing about your ex is a winning idea but what the experts won't tell you is that you should also share about your recent dating history... I recommend that during dinner you share about your date the night before - the good, the bad, the ugly and the sex... Your date has the right to know if they are on the road to a good date or a bad date and that no matter how the date goes that you will put out...
2. Dear baby Jesus....
Who you pray to and why is a must for first date conversation... In fact I recommend that over dinner you drop the "grace" bomb and pray over your food. You need to know if the person you are with is on the Tom Cruise Scientology train or if at some point they want you to move to South America and drink some KoolAid or rock a purple smock and black Nikes before you go to bed. This is information you need on date 1 not date 3 or 5 when find yourself at a rally praising the darkness, tell the sun to F-off and nailing the local doctor to a cross for highlighting the benefits of 60 year old men getting a boner or 2...
3. Sex....
Like my girls Salt-n-Peppa, "let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me..." If I am picking a date up I will have this song ready to play when the lucky young lady gets in the car - set the stage and keep it classy... If you can't talk about sex on a first date then what can you talk about it? Jump the big hurdles early and then the talk about less important things like kids, lifestyle, debt - money management, family and relationship expectations will be like water under the bridge.... You won't even need to talk about them - you will be to busy talking about and having sex... Thank me after you catch your breath...
Keeping dating conversations and dating dreams alive.... Much love party people and happy Monday...